Do Kenyan men feel uncomfortable asking for assistance when it comes to their love lives? We spoke to a few of our clients and we found common factors. In this article, we’ll uncover the reasons why men hesitate and provide ideas on how they can reach out.
Fear & Stereotypes
Seeking out assistance when it comes to dating is nothing to be ashamed of. Many successful people hire matchmakers for advice, as setting aside time for dates can become difficult with our hectic daily lives.
At Love Sponge, we strive to make the process easier by providing practical tips, insight into meeting potential partners and actually presenting you with people that match your profile.
There’s no reason why you should feel embarrassed or weak asking for help — in fact, seeking guidance could save you a lot of valuable time!
Vulnerability
Seeking help from a matchmaking service can bring up fear of judgement and vulnerability for some Kenyan men. It requires opening up about one’s dating experiences, preferences, and relationship goals which may be difficult to do in front of many people.
At Love Sponge, you don’t have to worry as all communication is only with your designated matchmaker, who will guide you throughout the entire process discreetly and comfortably.
Finance & Failure Concerns
Many men may be hesitant to pursue a matchmaking service out of fear that it won’t work or due to financial concerns thinking it might be too expensive. At Love Sponge, we understand these apprehensions and want to provide assurance for our clients: We guarantee over five matches until you feel content with your relationship status. Even if either one doesn’t result in success, failure is part of life and we will try again with another potential partner.
Unawareness
Matchmaking is a concept that has been around for centuries, with parents or relatives typically hand-picking partners. In recent times, particularly among those of the millionaire and billionaire classes who don’t have much time to date themselves, it’s become quite popular worldwide. And while matchmaking services are not new in Kenya either, some Kenyan men may feel intimated by the process due to their lack of familiarity with such services. We’ve even had cases where some people book an appointment but then drop off halfway through out of fear or uncertainty about what to expect from us.
Love Sponge matchmaking is here to help increase your chances of success in the pursuit of love. Our team offers personalized guidance for our male clientele, so all you have to do is take that first step today and begin your journey towards finding a fulfilling relationship.
Best Wishes!
